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Sunday, June 25, 2006

Will Krrish be India's first successful Superhero?

Yes , I saw ‘ KRISSH ‘ this Sunday in the afternoon. As everyone knows Krissh is a sequel to Koi Mil Gaya. It is director Rakesh Roshan’s second movie in the sci-fi genre. The movie will star Hrithik Roshan, Priyanka Chopra, Rekha, with a cameo by Preity Zinta. It will be subsequently dubbed in Tamil and Telugu..




Especially kids will enjoy it! Hrithik looks amazing in the movie with his new hairstyle and so does Priyanka Chopra ! The movie is a stunner and one must watch it!! Something like – INDIAN SUPERMAN!! Sequels are getting popular in India nowadays ! The costumes are very good in the movie but the songs are a bit of a let down. The special effects in the film are by Mark Kolbe and Craig Mumma. Hrithik Roshan has performed all the dare-devil stunts without the use of duplicates. Hrithik underwent massive martial arts training under Siu-Tung Ching. The thrill fest includes bungee-jumping, plunging into infernos, leaping across slippery rocks on wild-flowing rivulets, scaling walls, swinging trapeze acts, and so on. All of these stunts have been conceived and coordinated by Siu-Tung Ching of Hongkong and Sham Kaushal.
Later in the evening we went for the Club Mahindra Presentation for which we were invited. Club Mahindra has amazing resorts all over India. Since my Mom has been a member , we have stayed in their resorts in Munnar ( Kerala ) and Manali. Its truly beautiful. However Rajeev and me are not really interested as we don’t want a 25 year old membership!

Saturday, June 24, 2006

Recreating my Reading Hobby!!

I was thinking the other day that its been so long I have actually read anything ( apart from my study books ). However now that I have free time once I reach home from office ( exams are finally done with !) , I have prepared a list of the books I have missed out in the past few years and I am looking forward to read :

THE ALCHEMIST………………………………………………. BY PAUL COELHO

DA VINCI CODE………………………………………………….BY DAN BROWN

MEN ARE FROM MARS & WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS….BY JOHN GRAY

CREATED TO BE HIS HELP MEET…………………………..BY DEBBIE PEARL

CHANAKYA ON MANAGEMENT

LEFT BEHIND…………………………………………BY PASTOR BRAD BUTLER

PAID IN FULL………………………………………….BY TIMOTHY PAULSEN

THE 8TH HABIT………………………………………...BY SR COVEY


I have started reading the following :






Paid in Full is particularly important for me as its related to my work.

Next would be CHANAKYA ON MANAGEMENT , which is an excellent book as informed by my boss and my colleagues in office! Actually my Boss has an excellent selection of books kept with him so we keep borrowing them from him!!

Monday, June 19, 2006

My Weekend News

This weekend was a good one. Our friends Rachna and Amit visited us from Pune. We were all celebrating another couple friend , Rajesh and Rupali’s 4th marriage anniversary in Mumbai. This was on Friday . It was go good to see all 3 couples getting together after such a longtime. Earlier Rachna and Amit were also staying in Mumbai but they shifted to Pune when Amit changed his job last year !! Rachna has a 3 year old daughter Khushi and a 5 month old baby Shreya although she herself is only 25 years old!! Rupali also has a 2.5 year old son Siddhesh . So all of them were behind me and Rajeev that by next year we should have a little one in our arms!! That night we all slept pretty late at around 3am in the morning. Me and Rachna ended by gossiping and bitching the whole night…hahaha usual girly stuff!! When they used to stay in Mumbai we used to have a lot of these parties happening. Saturday I had a week off and Rajeev went to office along with Amit who wanted to meet his old colleagues. Rajesh also went to work so the ladies got a chance to shop like crazy. We all were thrilled that we didn’t have our husbands with us stopping us from buying what we wanted!! We were in the mall for around 5 hours and shopped till our legs ached!! I got myself lots of clothes , a nice handbag , bracelets , books and so on!! Imagine with all the babies around. Whenever Rachna had to try on any outfit ( and tried on a loooooooooooooot of them ) , the baby was in my arms or in the pram and me looking after her. It was fun and very very tiring. Later that night dinner was at our place and everyone had come over. I had cooked Goan Fish Curry , Fried fish while my cook managed the chicken , rotis , rice and all. Next day , that’s Sunday , I was in office working !! Rachna and Amit went back to Pune . It was an amazing weekend and felt really good to catch up with old friends. Then in the evening we first met my coushin who stays in Vashi and then went for a Movie - Chupke Chupke ' ....Okay dokey types!!

Friday, June 16, 2006

Know Your Personality Through Your Hand Writing!!

Graphology - Handwriting Analysis

Graphology - the study of handwriting and handwriting analysis
- is now an accepted and increasingly used technique for assessment of people in organizations. Handwriting analysis is an effective and reliable indicator of personality and behaviour, and so is a useful tool for many organizational processes, for example: recruitment, interviewing and selection, team-building, counselling, and career-planning.
Here is a introductory guide to graphology, with examples of techniques that graphologists and handwriting analysis experts use to analyse a person's personality from a sample of handwriting.
Graphology is 'brainwriting' - the handwriting comes directly from the writer in a uniquely personal and individual way, irrespective of how the person has been taught to write: an expert graphologist understands the styles of the different countries and languages and makes allowances for 'taught' influences. Also largely irrelevant to the actual analysis is the content of the written text.
The science of graphology uses at least 300 different handwriting features in its investigative approach. The graphologist's interpretation skill is in the psychological art of understanding the particular blend of handwriting features - an expert is able to see the writer 'step off the page'.

Graphology theory and history
A person's handwriting - the script - and its placing on the page express the unique impulses of the individual: logically, the brain sends signals along the muscles to the writing implement they control. By examining a handwriting sample, an expert graphologist is able to identify relevant features of the handwritten script, and the way the features interact. The features, and interaction between them, provide the information for the analysis. (No single handwriting sample will exhibit all 300 different features of course - a typical analysis will involve far less).
No single handwriting feature proves anything specific or absolute by itself; a single feature alone can only identify a trend. It is the combination of features, and the interaction between them that enable a full and clear interpretation. Graphology is actually a very old and respected science - the study of handwriting and its analysis was first developed by the Chinese 3,000 years ago
The Romans used graphology, and through the centuries since then various civilisations and cultures have analysed handwriting to identify the essence of the person who produced it.
The modern approach to handwriting analysis was established by a group of French clerics, led by Abbe Michon, who defined key aspects of the science in the 1870s, after 30 years of study. This work formed the basis of modern graphology, although the science is still being researched and expanded today. Professional graphologists operate to a strict code of ethics, and these experts are constantly in demand; those who use it recognise its value in the workplace as an additional method of understanding character. It is therefore an extremely useful tool in identifying the quality and capacity of an individual's talents and potential, particularly in career guidance and improving relationships. Like other powerful behavioural or intuitive models, it is not easy to explain how and why graphology works, nevertheless it continues to be used, respected and appreciated by many because it achieves a high level of results.

Graphology - an introductory guide to handwriting features

As previously stated there are around 300 features - this introductory article attempts to explain some of the basic ones that can be readily understood and which give interesting information.

Slant
Right slant indicates a response to communication, but not how it takes place. For example, the writer may wish to be friendly, manipulative, responsive, intrusive, to sell, to control, to be loving, supportive, just to name some possibilities.

If the handwriting is generally upright, this indicates independence.

A left slant tendency shows emotion and reserve. This writer needs to be true to self first and foremost and can be resentful if others try to push for more commitment from them.

Size
Handwriting is made up of three zones - or cases - middle, upper and lower. A basic average measure - or benchmark - by which size can be judged is 3mm per zone. This gives a benchmark for a non-remarkable full height of 9mm. More than this is large; less than this is small.

Large size handwriting can mean extravert and outgoing, or it can mean that the writer puts on an act of confidence, although this behaviour might not be exhibited to strangers.

Small size can, logically, mean the opposite. Small size handwriting can also indicate a thinker and an academic, depending upon other features in the script.

If the writing is small and delicate, the writer is unlikely to be a good communicator with anyone other than those on their own particular wavelength. These people do not generally find it easy to break new ground socially.

Pressure
Heavy pressure indicates commitment and taking things seriously, but if the pressure is excessively heavy, that writer gets very uptight at times and can react quickly to what they might see as criticism, even though none may have been intended. These writers react first and ask questions afterwards.

Light pressure shows sensitivity to atmosphere and empathy to people, but can also, if the pressure is uneven, show lack of vitality.

Upper zone or case (as in l, t, h, etc)


Tall upper strokes are reaching towards goals and ambitions or, if they are very extended, there may be unrealistic expectations of what the person feels they must achieve.

If there are reasonably proportioned upper zone loops, this indicates someone who likes to think things through and use their imagination in a sensible way. Wider upper zone loops indicate more of a tendency to dream up ideas and mull them over.

If the up-stroke goes up and then returns on top of itself, the writer may be squeezing out imagination and keeping to the basic requirement of getting down to the job in hand.

Lower zone (as in g, y, p, etc)

Lower loops are also varied and have different meanings.

For example a straight stroke shows impatience to get the job done.

A 'cradle' lower stroke suggests an avoidance of aggression and confrontation.

A full loop with heavy pressure indicates energy/money-making/sensuality possibilities, subject to correlation with other features.

A full lower loop with light pressure indicates a need or wish for security.

If there are many and varied shapes in the lower zone, the writer may feel unsettled and unfocused emotionally. Again the handwriting analyst would look for this to be indicated by other features in the script.

Word Spacing
The benchmark by which to judge wide or narrow spacing between words is the width of one letter of the person's handwriting.
Wide spaces between words are saying - 'give me breathing space'.

Narrow spaces between words indicate a wish to be with others, but such writers may also crowd people and be intrusive, notably if the writing lacks finesse.

Line spacing
Handwriting samples are always best on unlined paper, and particularly for exhibiting line-spacing features.

Wide-spaced lines of handwriting show a wish to stand back and take a long view.

Closely spaced lines indicates that that the writer operates close to the action. For writers who do this and who have writing that is rather loose in structure, the discipline of having to keep cool under pressure brings out the best in them.

Page Margins

The sides of the page each have a meaning.

The left side margin shows the roots and beginnings/family.

The right side shows other people and the future.

The top is goals and ambitions.

The foot of the page shows energy, instincts and practicality.

Therefore margins are very informative.

If the writer has a wide left margin, the interest is in moving on. If it is narrow, caution and wanting to avoid being pushed before they are ready is indicated.

Narrow right margin shows impatience and eagerness to get out there and on with things.

Wide right margin shows that there may be some fear of the unknown.

Middle zone or case (as in a, c, e, etc)
These middle zone shapes can give some particularly interesting information.

The middle zone in the script represents the ego - from it we get a lot of information as to how the writer feels and acts in public settings - what makes them tick socially and at work.

Some people's handwriting consists of only one single style, but many people will have a mixture of two handwriting styles or more.

Again this provides useful information.

All of these features have potentially positive and negative connotations; the analyst uses the flow and facility (ease, smoothness) of the script to infer a positive or negative interpretation.

Arcade
This means that the middle zone of the writing is humped and rounded at the top like a series of arches. It is in the basic style of copy-book, though it is not taught in all schools. Writers who use this can be loyal, protective, independent, trustworthy and methodical, but negatively they can be secretive, stubborn and hypocritical when they choose. The most important characteristic is group solidarity against outsiders.

Garland
Garland is like an inverted 'arcade' and is a people-orientated script. These writers make their m's, n's and h's in the opposite way to the arcade writer, like cups, or troughs, into which people can pour their troubles or just give information. The Garland writer enjoys being helpful and likes to be involved.

Angle
Angled middle zone is the analytical style, the sharp points, rather than curves, give the impression of probing. The angle writer, is better employing talents at work and for business or project purposes, rather than nurturing, which is the strength of the garland writer.

As with any indicators of personality style, the interpretation doesn't mean that each writer needs to be categorised and prevented or dissuaded from spreading their talents and interests, but the analysis can helpfully show where the person's strengths can be best employed.

Thread
Thread handwriting is like unravelled wool, waiting to be made up into something fresh. These writers are mentally alert and adaptable, but can also be elusive and lack patience. They are responders, rather than initiators. They can be very clever at drawing together strands of information and making something of them. Therefore they observe and bide their time, so that decisions are made at the most appropriate moment.

Wavyline
Wavyline handwriting is often an amalgam of all or most of the other forms and is usually written by people who are mentally mature and skilful. It shows that they can call on a variety of responses, to suit the occasion and indicates good coping mechanisms. They are adaptable and resourceful.

These features and interpretations provide a small but useful guide as to the way people behave, and particularly how they handle their social requirements. Check your own handwriting against these pointers to see what you can learn or confirm about yourself, and see also how effective even just a few simple graphology techniques can be in revealing personality style.

Understanding the personality through handwriting is a valuable way of making the best of both personal awareness and interpersonal situations for the benefit of all concerned.

The aim in using graphology to analyse a person's handwriting must always be positive. The interpretation should enable people analysed to use the understanding gained, to help them live their lives to the highest level of satisfaction that they choose. In a professional or organizational context, graphology can play an important part in enabling working relationships to be forged that will enhance the quality of the group or team performance.

As a child you were taught to write, but it's not likely that you still write in the way you were taught. The fact that you don't helps to explain the reason graphology exists and why graphology can be used to interpret personality.

Monday, June 12, 2006

My Nashik Visit

Hi everyone!! I am back after a hiatus of 11 days!! My exams are finally over!! YAHOO!!! I am feeling so relieved. It has been a hectic time for me although my exam center was a very stress free one. The college is built on the beach and I would get to see a beautiful view of the water while I was writing my papers!!

Last fifteen days as I said there was nothing much happening and I didn’t have anything to post. But 9th my last paper got over in the afternoon and the same day we had guests from Delhi at our place. Rajeev’s 2 aunts , 2 uncles and his grandmother had come to stay at our place . Actually they all were on a religious trip to Bhimashankar and Trimbakeshwara in Nashik. These are 2 Jytotirlingas of Lord Shiva out of the 12 which exist in India. It is said that Lord Shiva exist in each of the Jyotilinga and the one who see all 12 are freed of our sins. Nashik is called a Pilgramage city due to the no. of temples and holy places which exist in the city. The three lingas in this 18th century temple dedicated to Trimbakeswara are eye-shaped. Tri means "three," and Ambak means "eye," thus trimbaka means the "three-eyed one," who is Lord Shiva. This temple was visited by Lord Chaitanya. This interesting temple was built in 1730 by Baji Rao Peshwa, costing almost a million rupees at that time! Bhimashankar is also an amazing place. Actually we used to go there for trekking in our school days. I haven’t really clicked a lot of snaps due to the hectic journey however I have managed to click a few of the Trimakeshwara Temple and all of us. Click here SNAPS to see the snaps. We also went to Muktidham temple which is situated in Nasik. It has the statues and photos of almost all Indian Gods!!The Muktidham Temple is located near the station, around 7 kms from the city. The temple has been built with pure white makrana marble tiles making it a unique piece of architecture. The distinctive feature found here is that, eighteen chapters of the Bhagwad Geeta are written on the walls of the temple.

These 3 days were very hectic for me. More than anything I was very tensed because first time in 2.5 years of our marriage we had Rajeev’s relatives staying at our place. So me and Rajeev had to see that we give them full attention and there is complete hospitality extended to them. Because on our annual visit to Delhi evefry year , they do the same to us and take very good care of us!! At the end of it they were very pleased with their stay here and especially with me!! Thank God!!

Thursday, June 01, 2006

Back in Office

Hi Friends…..I am back to office after a leave of 3 days. My exams were good but the last paper was a little tough. I hope I clear it!! Actually the past 3 days were really bad for me. I got an attack of viral fever coupled with bad cough and cold. I wasn’t sure whether I would be able to even give my exams or not. There was so much weakness in me that even getting up from bed was something in which I needed to put a lot of effort. Let alone studying! And to top is all the exam center Dadar is a 45 minute drive from my place in case of low traffic otherwise it can take more than a hour. Rajeev used to accompany me and wait outside my exam hall till my paper is over! How sweet!! And yes , it started pouring like cats and dogs in Mumbai since the last three days!!! So everything was happening together. Mumaietes were sent SMSs by the Municipal Commisioner warning of the heavy rains due in the next 48 hours and that we shouldn’t get out of the house. News Channels flashed scenes of areas were water had started clogging ! I was really tensed of how I would reach the exam center!! However the real scene is not that bad. BMC is I guess doing a decent job this year. There was no water clogging anywhere and not really bad traffic. Now I have just one paper left which is next week!! Just waiting to finish it off!! By the way the weather is so good outside , wet and green , I JUST DON'T WANT TO WORK!!